HOW TO WIN THE HEART OF YOUR MOTHER -IN -LAW

I have a little secret for our married ladies living with their mother-inlaw , a girl named ugochi got married & went to live with her husband and mother-in-law. In a very short time, ugochi found that she couldn't get along with her mother-in-law at all.
Their personalities were very different, and ugochi was angered by many of her mother-in-law's habits. In addition, she criticized ugochi constantly.

Days passed, and weeks passed. Ugochi and her mother-in-law never stopped arguing and fighting.
But what made the situation even worse was that, according to their ancient tradition in their place, ugochi had to bow to her mother-in-law and obey her every wish. All the anger and unhappiness in the house was causing ugochi's poor husband the great distress.

Finally, ugochi could not stand her mother-in-law's bad temper and dictatorship any longer, and she decided to do something about it! Ugochi went to see her father's good friend, Mr. Obinna, who sold herbs.

She told him the situation and asked if he would give her some poison so that she could solve the problem once and for all.
Mr. Obinna thought for awhile, and finally said, "ugochi, I will help you solve your problem, but you must listen to me and obey what I tell you."

Ugochi said, "Yes, Mr. Obinna, I will do whatever you tell me to do."Mr. Obinna went into the back room, and returned in a few minutes with a package of herbs. He told ugochi, "You can't use a quick-acting poison to get rid of your mother-in-law, because that would cause people to become suspicious. Therefore, I have given you a number of herbs that will slowly build up poison in her body. Every other day prepare some delicious meal and put a little of these herbs in her serving.

Now, in order to make sure that nobody suspects you, when she dies, you must be very careful to act very friendly towards her. "Don't argue with her, obey her every wish, and treat her like a queen." Ugochi was so happy.
She thanked Mr. Obinna and hurried home to start her plot of murdering her mother-in-law.

Weeks went by, and months went by, and every other day, ugochi served the specially treated food to her mother-in-law. She remembered what Mr. Obinna had said about avoiding suspicion, so she controlled her temper, obeyed her mother-in-law, and treated her like her own mother.

After six months had passed, the whole household had changed. Ugochi had practiced controlling her temper so much that she found that she almost never got mad or upset. She hadn't had an argument with her mother-in-law in six months because she now seemed much kinder and easier to get along with.

The mother-in-law' s attitude toward ugochi changed, and she began to love ugochi like her own daughter. She kept telling friends and relatives that ugochi was the best daughter-in- law one could ever find. Ugochi and her mother-in-law were now treating each other like a real mother and daughter.

Ugochi's husband was very happy to see what was happening. One day, ugochi came to see Mr. Obinna and asked for his help again She said, "Dear Mr. Obinna please help me to keep the poison from killing my mother-in-law. She's changed into such a nice woman, and I love her like my own mother. I do not want her to die because of the poison I gave her."

Mr. Obinna smiled and nodded his head. "Ugochi there's nothing to worry about. I never gave you any poison. The herbs I gave you were vitamins to improve her health. The only poison was in your mind and your attitude towards her, but that has been all washed away by the love which you gave to her."

HAVE YOU REALIZED that how you treat others is exactly how they will treat you? There is a wise saying: "that The person who loves others will also be loved in return." Do have a wonderful New week in the Lord. God Bless.